"Remember!"
I want to look over the
subject of remembering. Remembrance comes up in many portions of the Bible and
we need to have a basic understanding of what remembering means.
Lets start with the
idea that you must forgive and forget. On the surface, it sounds as though
there couldn’t possibly be anything wrong with suggesting that we must forgive
and forget when it come to offenses committed against us. After all, isn’t
forgiveness “the Christian way”? How could anybody dispute that idea?
But will we forget the wrong done to us? Of course
not! It would be ridiculous to think that the Bible teaches us that we have to
have amnesia regarding certain experiences in our lives. Forgiving someone may
mean a lot of things, but it certainly doesn’t mean that we literally forget
what has happened. Not even God does that!
Wait a minute, you say!
Doesn’t the Bible say that God forgives our sins and forgets them? No. It says
that He doesn’t remember them.
Although many think the two are the same thing, they aren’t.
To forget means just
that. It means that God would have no ability to bring to mind the forgotten
thing. Do you really want to limit God like that? He just doesn’t REMEMBER our
sins.
What does it mean to
remember? Look at the word itself. It is composed of two parts: re- and member. Re- is a prefix
that means “to return to a previous condition” or “the repetition of a previous
action.” The word member means “one
of a group; one that belongs, a part of the body.” So the accurate and literal
meaning of the word “remember’ is to return something to a previous condition
by making it belong to or join again with something. If I cut off my finger,
the doctor may be able to re-member
it if I get it to him in time.
What the Bible says is
that God separates our sins from us forever. He doesn’t forget, but He does
remember them no more. He will forever refuse to join our sins to us or our
past guilt to Himself. He will not re-member
them!
Now back to OUR
forgiving and forgetting of someone else. Forgiveness is not a feeling. It is
an intentional choice to release a person from all obligation they may have
toward me as a result of any offense they have committed against me.
Why do we forgive? It’s
not primarily for the sake of the other person, but for our own sake. In Isaiah
43:5, God said, “I even I, am the one who wipes out your transgressions for My own sake.” It is the nature of
our loving God to forgive, and that’s why He has done it. You could replace the
words “for My own sake” with “because it’s just my nature to do it”. God would
have been inconsistent if He hadn’t forgiven you. After all, He is a forgiving
God by nature.
Christ and His nature
live in us now as Christians (see 2 Peter 1:4). We forgive others because His
nature is within us and to do any less is to act in a way that is contrary to
our authentic selves. We forgive for our own sakes so that we won’t be poisoned
by bitterness that grows in the absence of forgiveness.
Let’s talk now about
that familiar passage which we hear so often when we receive Communion.
“The Lord Jesus in the
night in which He was betrayed took bread; and when He had given thanks, He
broke it and said, ‘This is My body, which is for you; do this in remembrance
of Me.’ In the same way He took the cup also after supper saying, ‘This cup is
the new covenant in My blood; do this, as often as you drink it, in remembrance
of Me” (1 Corinthians 11:23-25).
What did He mean by
that? He meant, “As often as you partake of this communion meal in the future,
do it in a way that you are appropriating the reality of your connection to Me.”
He wasn’t telling believers that when we take communion, we are to think in our
minds and pretend that we are there watching His crucifixion. He is telling us
to re-member. We are to affirm by
faith that we are inseparably joined to Him, and we affirm that reality again
and again when we partake of the elements.
Some would have us
reflect on or re-member our
sinfulness at communion time. Although past sins may flash into our mind at
communion time, we are not to re-member
them! We are not to try to re-attach them to ourselves. Our old nature of sin
have been thrown out and replaced with the divine nature of God in Christ. Communions
should be a joyous time of re-membering
who we are in union with Christ within us – not a sober time of sin reflection.
In conclusion, don’t
set an impossible goal for yourself to forgive and forget. Your Father doesn’t
expect that of you. Just do as God does: He forgives and then doesn’t re-member anymore! Make the choice from
within your divine nature in Christ not to attempt to bring the offense up
again. It will allow you to get on with your life in a way that you’re not
contaminated in your attitude, mood, or perspective because of the past. That’s
a good reason to do it.
Most importantly, it
will allow you to act in a way that is consistent with who you truly are – a child
of God whose desire is to honor your Father by giving to others the same
forgiveness that you have received from Him. That’s the BEST reason to do it.
And at the communion
table, joyously re-member your union
with Jesus Christ who is forever joined to your human spirit. In the trenches
of our human life, our thoughts may be temporarily drawn away from who we
really are. But God will never really let us FORGET this and will bring us back
into RE-MEMBRANCE.